Fail fast. It’s advice that I received recently that some old dusty file cabinet in my brain vaguely also recalled as a chant of Silicon Valley tech developers. Their “fail fast, fail often” mantra of designing new technology seemed in direct opposition …

Coming out of the closet is not just an LGBTQ+ thing… even if I convinced myself that it was. 

I remember when my fabulous book editor, Sally, suggested the tagline for my book, “Facing big fears, living hard truths, and loving myself fully out of the c…

Fun fact: It took me a ridiculously long time to accept my label as “writer.” 

I definitely didn’t adopt it even with a decade of copywriting for businesses under my belt. I couldn’t call myself a writer when I started my Queer Abby blog with hundreds o…